Thursday 18 August 2011

MY FIRST LOVE

MY FIRST LOVE have you ever thought about this topic in your life or have ever generate the signs of love,well if don't so let's discover the signs of love people around you can't tell you what are the signs of love well i can't find any? i discover those signs on my own.
my first lovewell if you want to find out what is love first you have to went through attraction and crush because they both are the biggest competition of love Why? because normal people can't tell you the difference between crush and love.so let's start and find out the signs of love but before it we have to know what is crush and attraction?


WHAT IS CRUSH?


Well Love crush is an oxymoron. A crush is typically someone you do not know very well, but are physically attracted to. To a certain extent "love" at first time in life might apply, but at that point in time the meaning of the word "love" is distorted.


WHAT IS ATTRACTION?


Attraction usually involves an instant decision of like or dislike, based on our own subconscious criteria. If we meet someone in person, we tend to size them up physically. If we meet through letters or phone conversation or internet chat, we tend to size them up, over a longer term, by how well they converse and how interesting (or complimentary) they are while we interact with them.


AND NOW COMES THE VERY IMPORTANT QUESTION WHAT IS LOVE?


Love is a feeling which is beyond attraction and beyond understanding of human mind
love is a feeling of joy, a feeling of oneness a feeling of home, a feeling of this is it, love can be felt even if u see the name of ur lover somewhere and attraction wants to have her/his feel her/his and want her/his and be possessive and angry and violent if u dont get it..........but when u love u can even enjoy seeing her/his happy..............in no matter what circumstances you are.......thats love and that can just be experienced.

SO as told you earlier love can not be described it can be only experienced.


Now you know the meaning og love,crush and attraction but still confused? don't worry let's carry on.


When i you fell in love with some one your whole mind diverts towards her/him.
for e.g; you always think about him/her, you just want to see him/her at any cost, get upset if you want meet him/her or even see her RIGHT?
you know i felt the same way when i was in your place that's why i am telling all this to you.
But now i have quite good experience about love.


Trust me guys if you are in love there is no rocket science required to discover your first love but still many people want to make sure if it isn't a crush,so let's clear it


you know thousands of people can't tell find out the difference betwee crush and love but attraction? any one can find out.Most of teenagers start there life with a series of crush.


A crush involves admiring someone from a safe distance. You feel a hugely powerful emotion, stronger than anything you've felt before. You obsess over this person. You would die for them. You think about them constantly. You are thrilled when you are near them and miserable when you are away from them. You desperately want to tell the person how you feel - but are frightened of it at the same time. this is what we call crush,If you're involved in a crush - enjoy it! We have ALL had crushes over the years and they're something you look back on with great fondness.Look at what makes your crush special. Those qualities that you admire in your crush are qualities that are very special to you, and it's very important to learn what those are.


Wile a love has no definition as a told you when you fell in love don't worry you will find out yourself that you are in love But many of my friends has give me the definition of love,


      
                   "WE LOVE BECAUSE IT'S THE ONLY TRUE ADVENTURE"


                    "LOVE IS BLIND,LOVE IS GREAT LOVE IS EMOTIONS,LOVE IS FAITH"


                     "TO BE IN LOVE IS TO BE IN STATE OF PERCEPTUAL ANESTHESIA"
       
                      "LOVE IS THE MASTER KEY THAT OPEN'S THE GATE OF HAPPINESS"
                         
    




These are some definition which my friends told me and they are quite good right?
Now you know the difference between love , crush and attraction now is the time for you to find whether he/she loves me or not.

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