Recently one of my friend ask me this question whether she love me love me not ? when he asked me this question i just gave him few tips which helps him to find out whether she love him or not. those same tips i am using here so that you could find out whether she or he loves you or not.Although women are commonly compared to water where the fickle-mindedness is innate, however, when the matters of the heart are concerned, women are one faithful and loyal party you can ever find. Which means, if woman have feelings for a man, even if she do not tell him directly, she will certainly, even if subtlely but surely let him in through your words and actions that he means much more than just an ordinary friend to you. Here are some tips and rule-of-thumbs that you guys can use as a yardstick to measure the degree of her fondness for you. (Note however that this may not apply to every situation or everyone, especially where body language is concerned, it is of ultra importance that you have to read it as a whole, and not that action alone).
She replies most if not all of your text messages / short message send (sms) as we call it
Yes, and it applies as and when you send it. Even if it comes in the middle of the night, if she's still awake, and if she likes you, she will usually give you a reply. In those instances when she didn't reply you or replied late, she would give you the reason for the delay, for example stuck in a meeting, or rushing some work in the office, or she didn't hear the handphone alert.Because women tend to get very happy and excited when she receives some sort of communication initiated by the guy, and as a way of showing her happiness, she will respond to them immediately, if circumstances allow.
She reacts positively to your accidental touches.
Ok, whether is it an accidental brush or a deliberate caress, if she's into you, chances are she won't shove your hand away or shrug her shoulder or whichever body part that comes into contact with you physically. In fact, she may subconsciously or purposely brush you with her hands or arms to create more intimacy. Women are very sensitive to touch. So if a man whom she'd like to keep a distance touches her, all her senses get fired up putting her on an high alert mode, so she can prevent any of such "accidents" from happening. On the contrary, if she has fond feelings for you, then not only will she not push you away, she may even respond with a very shy and coy smile. Keep your eyes open guys!
Watch her pupils dilating.
Takes an expert to be able to catch this, plus you have to be standing close enough for you to notice these subtle changes in your girl's eyes (doesn't distance also tells you how special you are in her heart?). But it is an almost undeniable and unconcealable fact that one's pupils will get dilated when they see something they fancy, be it a person or an object. Hence the phrase "eyes light up"!Narrow the gap.
Test her feelings towards you by moving towards her. If she likes you, it's either she remain where she is, or she may also nudge a little bit forward to close the distance between both of you.
But if she take a step backwards, be warned. Maybe she needs a little bit more time to get used to your presence. This could be due to several reasons, family background and upbringing is one, or she is just too shy, or she do not like you enough to allow you to go into her personal zone as she sees this as an invasion of her private space rather than a 'declaration' of love.
When she takes a step back, guys, please remember not to take another step forward. You do not want to start a cha-cha dance in the middle of the office with you doing the "chasing" and she "escaping". It sure looks comical if you tape it down and fast-forward it! Can you see the picture?
I can't make it tonight, But ..
Now, you have to pay attention if there is a "but" at the end of her rejection to a date. If she continuously rejects .your date, without giving any reason or suggesting an alternative time and date, then chances are she is hinting you that you do not stand a chance and please stop bugging her.
But, yes, that's when the "but" comes in very handy as a glaring clue to you, if she suggests meeting up on another day, this means she wants to go out with you but she really couldn't make herself available at your preferred time and day.
One thing to note though. There are some girls who will never ever ask a guy out, even if its a platonic guy friend for a cup of coffee. So, if your special lady is one of this species, she may not suggest an alternate meeting time. But, what makes the difference between she liking you or not, is when you suggest meeting up another day, she will agree if she can make it. The latter will never agree as she finds it a waste of time.
She may not have an avid interest in the minute details of the circuit board of the latest super computer. She may not understand the almost religious nature of the deep rumble of a true Harley-Davidson. But she will enthusiastically listen to you talk about it for hours and is even willing to accompany you to all the conventions that come to town.
She confides in you
She feels lighter telling you about things that are troubling her or weighing her down. You make her burdens easier to bear. She loves telling you every little detail about her day, something good that happened to her or why she's feeling particularly low. You're an essential part of her life; of course she loves you
She tries to make you happy
She's a sucker for that smile on your face. She loves to do whatever it takes to see you satisfied and will go that extra mile. If she tries that little bit extra in whatever way, big or small, you can be sure she's madly in love with you.
Watch for signs of flirting.
If she's flirting, she may be difficult to read. Flirting girls may flirt with guys who they consider to be just friends, and it can be misconstrued as a crush. Although some girls have no idea they are flirting. Most girls do not want to be obvious, the flirting ones might flirt with you a little bit less or they might flirt with you even more. Either way, don't "flirt around". Do not flirt with other girls. If she ever sees you putting your arm around another girl or sees another girl hugging you, she may jump to conclusions and assume she doesn't mean anything to you. And she has nothing you like or she doesn't act the way you like girls
Look at her friends.
If you see most of her friends glancing back at you and smiling or giggling, this means that she is telling her friends about you. If her friends are loud and immature, you'll hear "(your name), (her name) likes you!" Her friends might be making it up, however, just to tease her. So you should probably listen to stuff like, "stop teasing me!" or "be quiet! He might hear!!" When she is having a conversation with her friends, and you come over, she might stop talking all of a sudden. This likely means you were the subject of the recently ended conversation. If she likes you and she told her friends about you, they might come up to you and start a random conversation about things such as: Who would you rather date me or (her name), who do you like better, who is the hottest, would you marry (her name) or me, etc. If they name a list of about 3 people and her name is in the list, she probably told her friends about you and they're trying to search for clues to see how you feel about her.
smile at her.
Do a natural smile - don't freak her out. If she smiles politely, or frowns and looks away, she is obviously freaked out by you. If she returns a soft or big smile and continues to look at you, then she is interested. If she smiles then darts over to the crowd of her friends and hides in the group then she may be nervous and curious if you know that she likes you.
so these are some of the tips which i told my friend you can also try these it worked for him may be it also worked for you.
